What do you look at first with women?

Post by **Bluestone** » Wed Aug 03, 2011 8:14 am

When a woman catches your eye, what is it that usually draws your attention? I've provided some poll answers, or you can add others, or expand them, on this thread?

Blue

Post by **Peter** » Wed Aug 03, 2011 11:03 am

I first notice the eyes, which is not on your list. Other than that I am a total package kind of guy. But a woman also gains or looses as much as three points on the ten scale with me, based on her smile.

Post by **Sandi** » Wed Aug 03, 2011 12:19 pm

You can remove my vote if you wish, Blue.....LOL.....because I am a Woman and not one interested in another woman for sexual engagement with her, but I would hope, anyway, that the answer would be Peter's....the EYES....so I voted for 'face'.

I'll repeat my way of saying it, that the Eyes are the gateway to the Soul, to the most inner parts of our Being.

The rest can change over the years, in man or woman, but the Eyes remain the same; they either speak Truth and Love or they speak Lies and Deception. It's the only part of 'body language' in which I'm interested, because without Eyes of Truth and Love, I don't care one bit about the rest of his body....and I hope it would be that way with men's views toward women, though of course this question can be answered on the 'eye candy/sex drive' level or the long-term relationship level in terms of what a Man notices first.

I know, of course, that Men think long-term when they see a Woman, not just about a roll in that hay....

well....um....er......not exactly.......

I'm always interested when this subject 'arises'....lol.....and point out as I have in the past, that I don't think many men realize how much we look at their butts in that 'first glance'.....and hopefully it attracts enough to give it a second glance....lol.

I see 'face' leading early on, and hope there will be many replies, cool subject, Blue.

Sandi

Post by **smudger** » Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:46 pm

I voted for boobs as to me that's the most important single feature. But after that I check out the hands. Dont know why, that's a fetish in itself I suppose!

Post by **Wart** » Wed Aug 03, 2011 4:18 pm

Neck.
Neck, neck and neck, and then eyes and face.

Post by **jubbaduffa** » Wed Aug 03, 2011 11:30 pm

since eyes isn't on here I voted for face..if her belly button is showing then THAT is the first thing I look at..

Post by **Tkiller** » Thu Aug 04, 2011 2:08 am

I have a strange way of looking at women and it seems to go in order. First thing I always notice is the hair... the colour and the style. Then it goes downward from there. Face, and then boobs and then decreasing in meaning as I proceed down. Of course, if something is particularly attractive beyond the hair, I'll stay on that feature or will remember that feature the most in the end, but it's the hair that I always notice first. On the head... to be precise!!! LOL

Post by **Indrid Cold** » Thu Aug 04, 2011 3:44 am

If I am interested in cuteness/physical beauty, the face. Sex appeal, legs/clothing.

Post by **speak376** » Thu Aug 04, 2011 2:39 pm

the eyes are the first thing i notice usually.

Post by **heartbreaker** » Thu Aug 04, 2011 8:55 pm

I first take in her entire presentation, then focus on what may be outstanding, perhaps her face first, then maybe her legs. If she posesses a truly outstanding single feature (at least for me) I may focus there first. But generally, the way she moves, stands, speaks, and presents herself is going to be first for me, and then how she may fit into a fetish fantasy.

I mean, I'm sure we all do that fairly quickly as a rule. I could be wrong...

Post by **Nightposter** » Thu Aug 04, 2011 9:22 pm

First, attracted to eyes,( pale blue or gray) face, hair...
second, over all shape, I prefer " just enough of everything, not too much of anything"
third, height...I want to look into her eyes, not the top of her head.

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Post by **bullseye** » Thu Aug 04, 2011 10:30 pm

Let's face it, the face (including eyes) is what's most often on display, so it's not only a key component of attractiveness but also the obvious place to look. This is assuming we're talking about women we see walking around, not in some sort of porn picture. I admit that if all women walked around topless I might be tempted to change my choice.

Post by **Deviated** » Fri Aug 05, 2011 5:11 am

I said attitude, which is what I tend to notice first... personality is very important for me. I'm very much attuned to the way a woman carries herself, her fashion choices, her body language, her mannerisms, and what they say about her. That's always what grabs my eye first.

Obviously, I notice a pretty face. I notice a great figure. But if my first radar scan doesn't pick up anything interest in their attitude, I'm not going to make much note of them. I've said before I love bad girls in fetish work, but in real life attitude means a lot more than that... I'm not looking for a specific kind of girl, just a girl who radiates something more than "I am suitably attractive". I've dated fierce punk rock girls, I've dated the female version of Woody Allen*... it's that spark of character that get's me every time, not what direction the spark flies.

-D

* No, she did not actually LOOK like Woody Allen.

Post by **Vanessa** » Sat Aug 06, 2011 4:43 am

I bet you can't guess what I look at first! LOL

Post by **speak376** » Mon Aug 08, 2011 2:00 am

Nightposter wrote:First, attracted to eyes,( pale blue or gray) face, hair...
second, over all shape, I prefer " just enough of everything, not too much of anything"
third, height...I want to look into her eyes, not the top of her head.
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nice photo of erin grey. now you made me want to watch buck rodgers again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

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