How Do Members 'Use' Fantasy Clips/Images?

[Sandi]

Very general question here, no matter what your individual fantasies are. I posted it elsewhere also.

I've always been curious how other Members of this community 'use' favorite clips they save or download or buy.

So that's the simple question of my thread here. Naturally, I'll go into detail below....lol....and maybe confuse people as I do, but the simple question is.....

"How Do You Use Favorite Fantasy Movie Clips/Images For Your Fantasy Enjoyment?"

For that matter, I'm curious how any Man or Woman 'uses' material they 'have' that fits a fantasy of theirs, be it a dom/submission, bondage, schoolgirl, maid, spy, damsel in distress, whatever.

I assume that most do not buy or download something they hope to view only once.

Something....and often many things....turn us on about a 'clip' or a death scene or even the mood of an entire movie that leads to the demises and all the attached emotions for the woman.

But, at home.....do 'most' Members watch a favorite clip AS they, say, wish to masturbate? Do they watch before they 'take care of business', however that business is taken care of? Do they watch with a Partner?

Are they 'cumming' as the Woman is in her throes?

I mean, this isn't the old 'dark theater' here where the coats were over the guys' laps in the old days, you know......we're at home watching these forbidden turn-on fruits now, so no overcoat over the lap is needed (though, yes, I understand that for many/most, the door may have to be locked or whatever....LOL!!!)....same constaints we all went through as Youngers when we wanted to do such private things. Could NOT be caught, was all that mattered....lol.

I tend to 'freeze' specific frames, if I am in a mood to 'play a scene' while sitting in the chair or lying on the sofa or whatever with the computer in front of me. Sometimes I print an Image, and have often quite enlarged them and 'in the old days' I used to put one or more on the wall behind the couch, and 'play' as if that Woman was in the room with me. Don't do that any more....or have not since those little people entered the house.....lol.

But if I freeze a frame, or capture it and recall it from my pictures.....I often AM that 'mood' or even 'that woman' playing that scene as I look at the image. I feel it being me, I feel myself as the actress feeling what I am feeling and portraying it in body and language and all.

So what I'm saying is that QUITE often, my personal fantasy masturbation time happens with a computer screen image I am staring at as I am playing...whether I'm playing THAT woman's role, or ME facing 'that Woman', using a Visual is very stimulating for me and is as close as I can come to having a real Partner in the scene.

So that's how I generally 'use' a clip or movie. Or, of course, I'll watch one or more of a particular 'mood' one right the other, and then begin my fantasy play with whatever Characters I have inserted for that day.

But what do you DO with a favorite scene once you have captured it or bought it or downloaded it?

I just wonder 'how many' actually use a running movie or a repeating scene (LOVE that usage also...LOL!....where just the shooting sequence repeats and repeats if I wish it to) or a frozen screen image WHILE they are 'in the physical act' of doing something else to stimulate themselves.

And maybe, as usual, the Men will be more reticent to admit to those details.....lol. And I'm just poking fun, though I think there is more 'uptight' in the Men here about masturbation details than the Women, which would make sense to me. So I'm not knocking ya, Guys!...lol.

A Woman might have a dildo or vibrator inside her while watching on the bed or chair or sofa or any other darn place....lol. Etc.

I'm not sure that our Producers know the answer, either....and am equally not sure that it matters one bit what it is, to them.....LOL. But maybe it could, if they knew 'how' their movies are used, or when.

And as I have said, to further the imagery, no matter what I choose to be wearing, I have a favorite old belt and an old belly chain, one of which I tie around my waist, TIGHT. And I have that little wooden piece that holds the pants onto a man's suit hanger, it's so nice with the small and very rounded end.....

whether playing shooting or stabbing/sword scene, I generally want to FEEL something 'penetrating me'....without having to necessarily 'hold it' and use a hand for that purpose.....much better usage during fantasy play for each hand, maybe.....one might have to still be holding and/or firing a gun, and one may just have to be 'somewhere near' my sex.......somewhere very, VEWY near.

So as I've mentioned frequently, I lay that small wooden piece against the skin of my belly, the last few inches under the belly chain, and twist the chain about 2-4 times, and I can get the piece to stand straight OUT from my belly, hand's free, as I pretend to 'get it' in the belly.

The point I can never explain well is that with the piece sticking straight out, the rounded end is against my belly, either inside my navel (in which case I must be careful...lol) or against that sensual softness a couple inches below the navel. And when I imagine getting HIT, I take that intake of breath and it DOES pull the piece INTO me a bit....yes, I have years of experience so I don't pull it in too far, but truly, my personal imagery is that my navel 'canal' muscles, as my vagina muscles do around the other Penetrator, clamp on....and hold on tight...and even...pull it in....even though it hurts.

It's just 'my' imagery, my personal and very obvious phallic symbolism of the penetration and the surrender.

So I only add that to further detail some things I personally do while having a clip or image on my screen. I use the clip to form the shooting mood I want to feel, and then I play it, with my very simplistic props......they include a cap gun when no one is home.....lol.

How do you use your favorite movies/clips?

Sandi

[Bluestone]

Okay, I'll get this going! Very good topic, Sandi!

I think that use of the videos probably depends on what is one's major fetish. You mentioned shootings. Well, I do enjoy them, but they are over so quickly that I never really masturbate to them a lot. What I love is a long sensual strangle. One of my favourites that I rock to over and over again is Petra's "Backseat Strangler". With a movie such as that one, I just start playing it on my computer and by the time the scene has climaxed, so have I.

Another way that I use videos is to visualize them when I'm making love to my wife, the images in my head firing me up for the sex act. If I have the opportunity, I will watch a clip just before love-making, so that it's fresh in my mind.

I also use images from the videos as a jumping off point for alternate scenarios. For example, using "Backseat Strangler" again as an example, I visualize myself as the killer. As I'm strangling her as in the video, I change the ending making it much more vicious. I release the car seat so that it falls back and I can seize her by the throat as she falls back into my backseat space. Then, as I strangle her with one hand, I rip her blouse open and fondle her breasts with my free hand. Then, I might pull out a knife and ram it under the risen hem of her skirt. Usually by this time I am completely spent, but if not I will visualize myself squeezing her neck with both hands and as she gasps for air, I will lock my lips on hers and kiss her as she's dying in a panic in my clutches. If that doesn't do it for me, nothing will.

Well, those are my basic uses for my favourite videos.

Blue

[random]

Okay, I'll get this going! Very good topic, Sandi!

I think that use of the videos probably depends on what is one's major fetish. You mentioned shootings. Well, I do enjoy them, but they are over so quickly that I never really masturbate to them a lot.

Blue

C'mon, Blue! The reason shootings are over so quickly is because that's the way you produce them; the same applies to stabbings. That is in no way intended as a criticism ( ); producers have to offer what customers want. Neck-play offers the opportunity for some prolonged scenes, but the same can be said for other demises, too. "Open House, Open Fire" is a great example even though I (personally) wouldn't have had Suzi "take" those last five or six rounds........

That's just a rare, random observation from one who has always appreciated your work.

[LadyAsh]

This is the reply I posted elsewhere

I use videos to give me ideas. My imagination drives my fantasies but those ideas can and are worked in. It may be costume, it may be scene or it may be the manner of her death. It may even be something passing like the way her legs kick as she dies or how she lies after death.

[Bluestone]

That's just a rare, random observation from one who has always appreciated your work.

A random observation from Random. Go figure!

Well, you're right, of course. There are the exceptions of the longer shooting and stabbing agonies, and those are ones that I can also get into for masturbation. Don't get me wrong. I'm aroused by almost anything that I produce, or I wouldn't produce it. I was just centering in on what I thought the question was getting at. I will indeed re-view shooting, stabbing and other videos when I have a chance, but if I want to really get off, I have some favourite strangle scenes that do it for me every time.

Like I said, I think everyone has a major fetish that turns their crank more than other necro fare. Hopefully, others will share what turns their crank and why.

Blue

[Deviated]

Bad girls, femme fatales and dominatrixes tend to be my favorite thing, but I'll go all over the map - gunshots are a bit fast for me too, but anything else is fun. I'm honestly as likely to use erotic stories as video, and I usually check out a few to see what is sticking with me. I might enjoy myself as I enjoy a video, or I might just use it for a jumping off point in a fantasy.

I never mix it with real sex though. They work on totally different wavelengths for me - when I'm in the mood for sex I want sex, and when I am in the mood for fantasy I want fantasy. It's hard to switch rapidly between them, it always feels like the one is distracting me from the other.

-D

[Steph]

If I am going to have sex, solo or with the Boss I like to set the scene and build up to it. I find some female demise clips highly erotic in this process of foreplay. Like Deviated I like scenarios where the woman is apparently in control before she meets her fate and I love clips which portray that. I prefer shootings but death need not be instantaneous and I love the moans and writhing that can follow a shooting, although a sharp scream can speed up my juices no end.

I identify with the victims in my favourite clips of this type, and try to incorporate ideas that appeal into my own erotic scripts. This doesn't just come from clips though. As I say sounds can be effective, including a few recordings I have from old radio suspense shows. I can also enjoy picturing scenes from stories or individual pictures. Sometimes a single picture can trigger a scenario in my mind.

One of my all-time specials is a clip from a silly b&w sci-fi film called 'the Tingler' with Vincent Price I think. The woman is spoilt and domineering and has been taken over by the alien being (the Tingler). She confronts her scientist husband who threatens her with a gun. She backs away suddenly nervous. He shoots (in the film it's a blank but back in those days there was no blood so its not obvious), she clutches at her body and collapses and after a moment he lifts her on to his examining table. Her actions and expressions really turn me on especially since she's just come back from some party suitably gowned and that is a part of my humiliation of the victim's dominance thing.
A soak in a scented bath, a suitable outfit and then watching this leaves me highly susceptible to erotic feelings. On my own with my little device switched on I can aspire to the fear and collapse dying into a climax. Or I can let the anticipation build and save it for when the Boss comes home when he will often play along leaving me a quivering mass of jelly. Fun!

I find that the lack of blood and gore in older films makes it easier for me to 'get in the mood'. (I'm sure others find a gush of fluids very effective.)
At present I'm finding that a couple of scenes from 'Gun fun Ryane' from PKF are especially good for me. I would buy clips from other producers except that it seems very difficult to buy from across the pond without the use of snail-mail these days.

Oddly I find that a couple of the KHP clips which most definitely are gory still turn me on. Perhaps it's down to the acting and directing?

And of course there's 'Lightning Bolt' where she looks and sounds so like me a few years ago. It's like my own imagination brought to life. Sadly the Boss is too stiff these days to force him to his knees at gunpoint. Anyway who needs gun-toting brunettes! Whatever is the world coming to? Blondes rule!