Is there a cure?

[Indrid Cold]

Be patient. You never know when you may be presented with the opportunity.

I never would have dreamed that I would have had the opportunity to shoot a video with Debbie.

[Nightposter]

Is there a cure?
Is there a problem?

The problem isn't with "us", it's with those who think, because we have different thoughts than their narrow minded views, we are "sick".

Go back in history, those who call us sick might have been put to death back then.... wait, maybe because their ancestors were put to death for sport, they are still holding a grudge?

[mikedark]

The Western view on sexuality and the body really is a sickness. And it makes people deny themselves because they're taught they're "sinful" for their fetishes. Meanwhile, people in the mainstream media exploit those fetishes for profit, knowing damn well what they're doing. It's nothing new. The Romans knew there was something, if not sexual, then certainly primal and visceral to watching lethal combat sports (hell, there's those same elements in non-lethal combat sports. Wrestling, MMA, boxing, and martial arts competition all thrive on the gut level thrill watching people in conflict generates). But it's certainly become more sexualized in modern media. You mean to tell me the Gothics, both male and female, didn't know there was something enticing about put upon heroines in peril? Or that mystery writers don't know there's something exciting about the detailing of a female victim in repose? Or especially that horror producers don't catch on to the overtones of having a well-fucked 16 year old with her tits all hanging out being stabbed in the breasts or lower abdomen by a phallic shaped knife? That's a fucking joke. They know how many people get turned on by it, and know that most people just aren't willing to admit it to themselves, so will indulge in it as a guilty pleasure even if it's on a subconscious level.

In Japan, there's none of this repression. You would imagine there would be. It's a country that still holds traditional division in male and female roles to not only be politically correct, but absolute essential to the functioning of society. Women can and do figure prominently in the white collar world, but away from the office they're still expected to be shy, demure, and defer to men. A good wife is still supposed to be a quiet wife. This seems like the right climate compared to our constantly in flux and almost anarchic take on gender relations to foster extreme sexual repression. Nope. They are open and public about the fact that they are freaky, nasty people, and their kids know it, and their kids seem healthier for it. And that includes ryona (women in pain/peril) and guro (just that, gore fetish).

[Egeek]

fear I do but not as much as I used to when it comes to my fetishes and fantasies. But everyday still wonder. but do know one thing. I if I didnt have my imagination and dark fantasies my fetishes then I would beable to write stories and create characters from scratch or from people I know.

[Egeek]

my fantasies and imagination may be helpful when it comes to writing but if there ever was a cure. I would take it. 99.9% sure anyways. I write a story and enjoy it with a box of tissues or watch a horror scene with a box of tissues and boom I get the guilt of masturbating over that type of stuff. my own fears kick in? while I know they are just fantasies. horror movies or my own stories. All fantasy. but sometimes wish I didnt have certain taboo thoughts. But I do and they do make my stories more fun to write.I sometimes wish i didnt see a lovely woman out there in reality and just by looking at her feet in hose and fantasy only thoughts come to mind. The beast in me is a mystery. Wonders and fears that follow. A journey of getting used to it.

[xj900uk]

It's all fantasy at the end of the day, Egeek. Nothing wrong with that so long as you keep it just fantasy!
Somebody once said that Man's (think he was talking about both men & women) most powerful sexual organ was actually their brain. Know what he meant

[Grace X]

As a young woman I certainly thought I was unusual, but as some have said above, I never felt my death/sex yearnings compromised my moral center. I have always cherished kindness and dignity and consideration toward others, even in the midst of my most intense erotic murder fantasies. So no cure for me, please. I embrace who I am, and the vibrant quality of my passions, with my whole heart and soul.

XOX G

[xj900uk]

Know exactly what you mean, Grace. In your fantasies when you murder someone, you always do it pleasantly

[Egeek]

As a young woman I certainly thought I was unusual, but as some have said above, I never felt my death/sex yearnings compromised my moral center. I have always cherished kindness and dignity and consideration toward others, even in the midst of my most intense erotic murder fantasies. So no cure for me, please. I embrace who I am, and the vibrant quality of my passions, with my whole heart and soul.

XOX G

Lately I have been embracing my fantasies more in my stories. more detail of them. If I really did listen to my moral center. I wouldnt have considered writing about demon type characters or making the black crane a cold hearted killer. been turning off my moral center sort to speak to a point but I still have the fears and morals too and they clash with my fantasies. the beast in me is my soul or part of it anyways. I cant relate to my killer characters killing off vics in a pleasant way or even fully showing respect to their vics. But on one or two of their minds is necro beauty. Paintings of life.

[Egeek]

It's all fantasy at the end of the day, Egeek. Nothing wrong with that so long as you keep it just fantasy!
Somebody once said that Man's (think he was talking about both men & women) most powerful sexual organ was actually their brain. Know what he meant

ya a beautiful yet deadly female killer did say that. Grace x I believe. I consider my mind as fantasy earth. I wish I think of a better term for it. But as I write because its fantasy I turn off my moral center or least try to. I dont mention age group anymore but I leave that up to the readers imagination. would that killer be that evil? maybe.

[xj900uk]

Might not be. Imagine an executioner from the Middle Ages whose job is actually to execute people, whether by beheading, hanging, burning at the stake, boiling in oil, or some other form of demise which could be quick and painless, or slow and agonising.
He doesn't necessarily have to be evil, he might think it's just a job - another day at the office, nothing more, nothing else, and a good bit of hard work never hurt anyone...

[Egeek]

Might not be. Imagine an executioner from the Middle Ages whose job is actually to execute people, whether by beheading, hanging, burning at the stake, boiling in oil, or some other form of demise which could be quick and painless, or slow and agonising.
He doesn't necessarily have to be evil, he might think it's just a job - another day at the office, nothing more, nothing else, and a good bit of hard work never hurt anyone...

for every type of character brings a reason for their madness. pure evil with no morals. or turned cold hearted because of a past event. the list goes on. I think that in order for me to enjoy my fantasies is to sometimes put aside my moral center as some have called it and just enjoy them as is. fantasies. In fantasies the beast knows no morals because its fantasy. morals can be seen as just a element to a scene. In a character if we add it. same as a fetish or a reason for the kill.

[Egeek]

Also while it feels like I make friends in the erotic death fetish community but then I loose friends just the same. Its like I lose my confidence in my likes or dislikes and then I wonder if I want to try to turn off my fantasies. part of me wants a cure. part of me doesnt. its like I have the angel on one shoulder and the devil on the other shoulder. one saying yes write and enjoy that story and fantasy you have with a box of tissues. the angel is saying not a good idea or saying na.

[xj900uk]

Well when I write I try to write more than just a gratuitous death scene. I mean they are there and present, b ut I often use them to reflect the society rather than the act itself. And, as you know, I always put the characters first before any plot/action

[Egeek]

Well when I write I try to write more than just a gratuitous death scene. I mean they are there and present, but I often use them to reflect the society rather than the act itself. And, as you know, I always put the characters first before any plot/action

ya and I think the way you write is rubbing off onto me. as I write my characrters it can be just as arousing as creating the scene. their perverted minds and reasons for what they do. A little horror scene to read and enjoy that is inside of their mind.