Why post here, why post there, why post anywhere?

[bellystabs]

I like posting on this board and on JohnM's board at PKF Studios and on Poisoned Paradigm. My least favorite board is DS. I have never joined there because of the constant attacks spawned by Geno, especially the attacks against you and Paul and Dennis, and the insults he throws at JohnM and Dalila and Big O and others. I have been customers of all you producers, as well as Dr. Don. Wow...when I first found his movies 10 years ago, I was so amazed! It was a sad day for our community when he was shut down.

Like Peter, I also love the girls. So when I discovered Dalila was over here, I joined up two weeks ago. When I read her post about how John Matrix had made her look like a liar on DS, that was the last straw. I am sick and tired of producers getting attacked, and it seemed to me like the Spawn of Geno had infected this board. I am glad John sincerely apologized to her later, but prior to seeing his apology, I finally "vented my spleen" so to speak.

But now I am taking your advice (in blue) to heart, and I filled in the blanks as shown below (in yellow).

When people start trading insults, which devolves into name-calling, it is time to step back, take a deep breath, and either push the ignore button on the 'Foe' list, or learn how to diffuse a situation. It's very simple. I've done it many times recently on DS. One simply posts something such as:

"I'm sorry for tearing into John Matrix so badly, but he really ticked me off. I still wish he would cease and desist with what I and others consider to be his constant whining and fighting. He can disagree with me all he wants, but that's the way I feel at this point."

Thanks for starting this thread, Blue.

Regards,
Bellystabs

[TenderFlesh]

I post here because I enjoy every time I learn more about our wonderful fetish by sharing comments and ideas. I also post because I believe that producers do listen to what us customers say and, thus, by posting I feel I get a chance to improve videos so as to better enjoy the efforts all the producers put out there to "feed" our fetish. TF

[Bluestone]

Some good responses so far. Anyone else care to share? Why post anywhere is one of the options, and can be as general or specific as you want to make it

Blue