Why post here, why post there, why post anywhere?

[Bluestone]

I am asking this question in a general fashion, and I am really interested in a one post answers from as many people as possible. I say 'one post answers', because I don't want this thread to become a discussion between a few people. I'd like to have as many opinions as possible. So, if someone says they like posting on PP better because... _____ , I'd like that comment to remain unchallenged. Then, I'd like to hear from others. This is not a popularity contest. If another board does something, or offers something, better than we do here, I want to hear that. Of course, it's nice to hear nice things about FF, but I shoved my ego into the Bluestone dungeon last night, shackled it, and beat it into insensibility. So, I'm ready to listen with an open mind. Any takers?

Blue

[EvilBilly]

I only post here and occasionally at DS. I like the visual look of DS, larger yellow text against a dark blue/black background. If the standard font size here were bigger it would be easier on my eyes. Also, at least for the moment the exchange of ideas is a bit more active at DS. However, that said I have found that the members here are more receptive of a wider variety of ideas and preferences.

[John Matrix]

I post here or there because you said I could post here, and Geno said I could post there.

I post here because I enjoy the polite, civil, respectful, manners and decorum of the members that post. It's nice to be able to post without the expectation of being attacked, cyber bullied, riduculed, and humiliated by other punk ass members.

Thank you for providing this forum.

PS: I was being fecicious in my second paragraph above.

FECICIOUS is a real word.

[EvilBilly]

Do you mean 'Facetious'? At least spell the word correctly if you're going to flaunt it.

[John Matrix]

[quote=\"EvilBilly\"]Do you mean \'Facetious\'? At least spell the word correctly if you\'re going to flaunt it. [/quote]

Both spellings are correct. Google it.
It\'s like spelling defence, and defense.
Different spellings, but both correct.
Thanks for drawing my attention to this.

[EvilBilly]

JohnMatrix wrote:

Both spellings are correct. Google it.
It\'s like spelling defence, and defense.
Different spellings, but both correct.
Thanks for drawing my attention to this.

So they are. I stand corrected.

[EvilBilly]

Yikes, I will have to make more mistakes around here!! :idea:

[Bluestone]

Pennpaul,

Your objection is duly noted and I do agree.

Paul,

This is not a discussion post, and the rules above limited posts to one per member. You may of course post once more on topic, but otherwise, all who have stated their opinion on this subject should move to another room (thread) of your choosing and let the other members have a chance to express their opinions.

Thank you.

Emperor Blue

[John Matrix]

Pennpaul: You are not supposed to defend yourself against attackers over here, unless you want to get flamed. They would rather have us bend over and take it up the \\\"yin yang\\\" like girly men....LOL. I prefer to get flamed and dish a little out myself, as I am sure you do too.


Opps, sorry Blue....could not help my self....I had to encourage my good friend Pennpaul.

[Peter]

I frequent at least to the point of reading posts, almost all the forums in this community. I post to most at least in so far as responding to occasional posts. My favorite forum is Poisoned Paradigm for the simple reason that a great many of our women folk hang out there, and I am very fond of women folk. I tend to initiate threads mostly on Poisoned Paradigm.

The only forum I do not frequent is Deadskirts, which of course has nothing to do with not liking the members there, I like them just fine. And there are plenty of forums I do frequent that use less sophisticated software.

[kevin67]

I post here because I like the sharing of ideas and because I wanted to see what a death fetish venue looked like from the inside out. I really feel I learned a lot since I joined the board.

I also wanted to try to write scenarios, so this site, being attached to a video site ,was the perfect choice.

I also got to talk to ,and write for some of the biggest actresses in the death fantasy business. You get a great sense of accomplishment, when you see the completed project.

PS to Peter- Give Sadie and Sedira our well wishes from the FF board. She don't know me by name so just wish them well from all of us.

[bellystabs]

I like posting on this board and on JohnM's board at PKF Studios and on Poisoned Paradigm. My least favorite board is DS. I have never joined there because of the constant attacks spawned by Geno, especially the attacks against you and Paul and Dennis, and the insults he throws at JohnM and Dalila and Big O and others. I have been customers of all you producers, as well as Dr. Don. Wow...when I first found his movies 10 years ago, I was so amazed! It was a sad day for our community when he was shut down.

Like Peter, I also love the girls. So when I discovered Dalila was over here, I joined up two weeks ago. When I read her post about how John Matrix had made her look like a liar on DS, that was the last straw. I am sick and tired of producers getting attacked, and it seemed to me like the Spawn of Geno had infected this board. I am glad John sincerely apologized to her later, but prior to seeing his apology, I finally "vented my spleen" so to speak.

But now I am taking your advice (in blue) to heart, and I filled in the blanks as shown below (in yellow).

When people start trading insults, which devolves into name-calling, it is time to step back, take a deep breath, and either push the ignore button on the 'Foe' list, or learn how to diffuse a situation. It's very simple. I've done it many times recently on DS. One simply posts something such as:

"I'm sorry for tearing into John Matrix so badly, but he really ticked me off. I still wish he would cease and desist with what I and others consider to be his constant whining and fighting. He can disagree with me all he wants, but that's the way I feel at this point."

Thanks for starting this thread, Blue.

Regards,
Bellystabs

[TenderFlesh]

I post here because I enjoy every time I learn more about our wonderful fetish by sharing comments and ideas. I also post because I believe that producers do listen to what us customers say and, thus, by posting I feel I get a chance to improve videos so as to better enjoy the efforts all the producers put out there to "feed" our fetish. TF

[Bluestone]

Some good responses so far. Anyone else care to share? Why post anywhere is one of the options, and can be as general or specific as you want to make it

Blue