Men & Women playing Dead...A Question

[Big O]

When I was an early teen, I loved playing dead!. Playing war, getting shot and falling down! I think I have discovered over the years a little difference between men and women who share our fetish fantasy...It seems like more men like to watch women play dead than play dead themselves, whereas more women seem to enjoy and prefer playing dead! Am I right about this or off the mark? What do you prefer???


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[Max5s]

Big O,

Interesting question. I only like to watch the women play dead or dying.

[hardthrasher]

Hi Big O,

I started out on this path by enjoying playing dead. Earlier than you did - by age 6 or so. It had nothing to do with male/female back then... It was just fun. By the teen years, it morphed into fantasies about the cute girls in class playing shootout games with me (which sometimes happened in RL!). The rest is history...

[kevin67]

Hi,

Yes, as a child I enjoyed playing war and would occasionally play dead. In those years, the 1950's, only the guys played the war games, and the girls played their games. It may have been that , at that time, that girls were though of as the weaker sex, and therefore more likely to have the mind set to be the victim. Of course, this is only my opinion.

I don't believe this is true today, the mind set has changed to a much more equal status. In terms of our movies, think of Sigourney Weavers role in the Alien movies, and more recently Beyonce's role in Obsessed. These are strong women who are capable of playing war and winning. I think more and more women are now taking the bull by the horns and playing the perpetrator. Once again, this is my opinion .

As for myself, I enjoy seeing the women as victims, it's part of my fetish. Yet, when I suggest or write a custom, I have no problem making the evil one a strong, bitchy woman.

P.S.- This is a great question. Thank you Big O.

[slasherdude9999]

hmm... you know I wouldn't mind playing dead. But still being secretive and somewhat afraid of the wrong kind of public exposure the opportunity has never presented itself.

[SaucySailor]

Hi, Big O!
Yes I like. Some strange fantasies: 1) I'm lying moveless on the battlefield, then beautiful medician girl finds me and returns me to the life then we kiss (now - then we kiss and have sex), 2)Me and some girl are having sex. Then we reach an orgasm - an at this moment evil girl stabs me under the shoulder blade right in the heart. I make final friction and then she removes a knife and I die (in the other variation we both are stabbing each other with such a deadly hits).

[Egeek]

I started to get into where I play the vic in a story scene long story short. its fiction and a alt fantasy world after all when we create a story scene. Playing a vic character where the killer male or female has offed you and maybe enjoy you afterwards is a interesting feeling. But mostly prefer to play the viewer of the scene or maybe the killer character.

[Pennpaul]

Two model/actress I was working with asked me to be the victim instead of them. They were impressed by my death scene.

Lately, Debbie D has written several several skits requiring male deaths.

[Egeek]

Two model/actress I was working with asked me to be the victim instead of them. They were impressed by my death scene.

Lately, Debbie D has written several several skits requiring male deaths.

interesting. Its something different to do in a clip or story. that is for sure.