And, btw, rather than drop away completely I just post very rarely now and my/our experiences in playing fantasies with another woman were so, so, so fun and wonderful that I just have to attempt to convey my enthusiasm because I KNOW how much any such liaison would mean to any Member here also....with the right partner(s). Even if just watching, being there personally is just coming very close, at least, to ultimate enjoyment of a fantasy, isn't it???!! 
xj900......your comment about the female mind made me laugh....I've recounted this before, but your words apply to our escort friend Rachael as a woman, too, because I used a super-soaker machine gun on her in our first meeting (we met with her 'a few times' over about a 2-3 year period) and she absolutely SCREAMED at the frigid water as it soaked her flimsy teddy (which I never thought about, I just filled the dang thing, never thinking of cold or warm for 'effect' on Rachael...lol)...
and it produced the best and most real scream of the day....LOL....and she just naturally 'clutched' where it hit her, and WAS jerked around on her feet.....the first time we had to quickly get past the complete humor in it, but we did that quickly, it's amazing how one can laugh at a glitch while 'playing' and then stay right in the mood and keep going again....lol.
She FELT 'hit', is the point, and that sort of loosened up her 'acting' mind to understanding more of just what we were looking for in terms of her 'reactions'. We never did 'real sex', but just as any of you other fantasy lovers, there are certain 'looks' and reactions that really turn us on when watching another woman 'get it'....and to play with that woman, I needed to feel 'real' from her.
Just funny that it took a few ounces of icy-cold water to bring Rachael immediately into the realm of 'quality fantasy actress'....LOL.
And from there, we 'had her', because she contributed as much as we did to suggestions and future role-plays in those hours we spent together.
And the reason it really 'worked', actually for all 3 of us, is that for her this was a totally unique gig and one she really enjoyed, because it was nothing different than 'playing with friends', she didn't 'have to' have sex though she would have with either or both of us.
My point is that for ME it was great after that 'soaking' because SHE also got into the roles VERY much when she was to GET me also....and again, I want and NEED to feel that my 'killer' is in the true spirit of the scene, not 'acting'.....i.e. if you're going to 'control' me, I better be able to feel something!
So maybe it all it takes, after all, sometimes, is to throw a little cold water on the situation.....usually that is seen as 'dampening' sexual 'heights' and enthusiasm, but it sure worked here, xj900!
I always figure that the more female 'real' reactions I give here, the more that it should help someone, someplace, open up more themselves with their woman, or be able to address difficult subjects together....stuff like that. Can't help it, and it's all the Community's fault that I learned to open up myself those years ago because of the people here....lol....
and it's so damn exciting to 'come out' and be oneSELF that I'll never lose the enthusiasm of conveying to Others the JOYS at doing that, so hopefully they get freer with themselves also.
Simple Sandi
