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Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 8:52 am
by G-Man
Hi Folks
I just have to say that there's something that I just can't help but notice here. :roll: :roll: :roll:

When I'm here at Femme Fatalities...
It feels like I'm at this big fantastic wedding reception that has everything you could expect it should have, like...
Newly renovated and nicely decked out reception room... one can't help but have one really "KILL-HER" time here!!!
AND WHY NOT...
With lots and lots of members showing up and with plenty of wedding crashers (non-members) to boot!!! :yes:
Providing great entertainment...with thousands of Video Clips to watch, Pictures to see and Stories to read!!!
We also have plenty of members (over 8000!) posting activity in FF's forums!!!


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SO... I wonder why we do not have a fair amount of members getting out on the dance floor...
I.E. The Chatroom???
I can't believe all our members are that shy???
Just Saying G
:mrgreen:

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 9:43 am
by G-Man
Hi
Again... it does boggle my mind when at almost any time this board has at least 100 or more folks
looking around or posting something on this board.
Like right now its 169 on line here in the past "5 Minutes".
Some boards only sample every 4 HOURS... and show big inflated numbers.
I'm curious to see if we set this board to sample the same (every 4 hours) I know it would be easily
be somewhere over 700 or so.
So... all I'm trying to say in my first page is...
We have a really really have a good MB here with really good stuff and most of all...
With already lots and lots of members and participation...
Lets give the The Chatroom a try. :yes:
Thanks, G

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 10:13 am
by indiefilmfan
I'm shy because you haven't got me drunk enough yet, G-Man..... After all, this wedding is our first date! Now go bring me back some booze and cheese slices from the table across the room..... and some goddamn wedding cake, lol!!

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 10:28 am
by G-Man
Ah... you got a good point there indiefilmfan people usually loosen up after some booze. :yes:

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 10:40 am
by tostig
I find that people in this community tend to be a little shy or timid compared to some of the other haunts across the interwebs. I have a theory that, maybe, there is some degree of self-loathing or shame over the content. But that is all it is, a theory. I believe that the chat room will light up once the right “light” walks in.

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 11:29 am
by G-Man
Yeah tostig I agree most definitely there is some of that in what you say.
Plus probably a lot of FF members never had a microphone button available at their fingertips before. :roll:
Also... probably there are a lot of folks like me which really do not care one way or the other to have a chatroom.
Especially when I type very sloooooooow :frown:
That fact alone shies me away a lot, since it takes time away in what I like to do most...
To be a most successful
FDS Hunter (as in Female Death Scene) extraordinaire!!! :lol2: :lol2: :lol2:

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 11:43 am
by uncle_buck
Well GMan, All I can add to this 'string' is "Be Careful What You Wish For"
Weren't you the proprietor of a board where the Flame Wars Raged - hotly and continually?
If I recall correctly, Sandi's was the only consistently sane voice posting there ...

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2020 1:56 am
by Zufallx
I generally don't have much to say :)

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2020 3:43 pm
by runner
Agree with Zufallx

And another thing is that we aren't all good at writing in English :)

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2020 5:21 pm
by G-Man
...AH!!! runner
That is one great point I didn't think of!!! :yes: :yes: :yes:
Yes... yes... yes I forgot that we truly have a world-wide representation here.
Even though lots of folks may have English as their second language...
They probably can't type as fast as their thoughts. (In English)
Hey I get it, I grew up with English and I type slow as doo doo.
So of course we can't expect other members to be English efficient.
Again... runner you make a great point!
:clap:

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2020 5:49 pm
by Totallibertarianism
Probably because the dead fetish and erotic peril arts are just a "wonderful" distraction and a entertainment for the most of people here, people can not spend the majority of their times in the erotic, dead fetish, porn activities, like discussing, posting, chatting about these subjects in a forum like here. Me I love taking part in the discussions and debates and exposing my wishes and sharing my favourite movies but I have a life to lead too... Especially in that time with many crisis, wars and violences... I have to work, watch the news and protect myself, I have more important concern than spending most of my times in the hobbies. Of course the dead fetish and erotic peril are my BEST distraction :excited: but it still remains for the most of us a hobby, surely not a vital or main activities. I come here nearly four or three times in a week with a NTR's week but sometimes less...

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2020 5:56 pm
by uncle_buck
The English language - Yes. That is a point well taken. And perhaps why the most recent version of the darkfetishnet makes abundant use of the 'Like' :approve: symbol. The site keeps track of who 'liked' the post and then notifies the individual who posted the entry. An interesting idea and probably came about because those who post anything at all get little if anything in the way of response. The 'Like' symbol makes it ridiculously easy and no - or hardly any 'language' is involved at all.

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Thu Oct 01, 2020 1:42 pm
by tommygun
Part of the problem, also, is that many times we just don't have much to add that would be interesting! I, for one, love to see your new Blu-Ray finds, and keep track of new productions. But often, there just isn't much to say...!

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Thu Oct 01, 2020 7:28 pm
by Grace X
Attracting more of the lethal ladies/magnificent killee gals from the community will also surely bring more traffic to the chatbox. Gals do love to talk!

I've been promoting FF in my comments over at FetNoir to raise awareness of FF as a great place to hang out, so hopefully some more femmes fatale will come on board here.

Re: Why are FF Members soooo shy?

Posted: Thu Oct 01, 2020 9:01 pm
by Bluestone
Thanks, Grace. That would be great! We LOVE the ladies! :love: :X

In fact, here's one of our actors enjoying a scene with sexy Yvonne (Darkwing)! Yvonne was nice enough to help kick off our newest Crime Video Series, "Scotland Yard Cold Cases"! I'll see if she's willing to chat with the membership some night!
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These two certainly seem to be enjoying working for me!

Blue