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Agree 101% Blue. So long as it's all fantasy and we know and accept it is, it can be hugely relaxing, enjoying and exciting!

at first I felt guilty. Creating certain characters for my stories. Enjoying certain horror movie scenes because it had a sexy vic. Like the nurses in halloween 2(1981 version). Its fiction. Its fantasy. In that fantasy bubble is our fetishes. Somehow it all got molded together in my imagination part of my mind. I can enjoy writing my stories more.

Not particularly. And most people when there young feel a little guilty about regular sexual urges. Takes a while to get that whole thing sorted out in your head.

I haven't felt guilty about my fetish since I was 13. Still, I felt like some kind of rare freak of nature until I discover the death fetish community. Now I feel like those who don't have the fetish are abnormal.

Interesting... I don't think I ever felt guilty, but I certainly felt that my reactions to femme fatale scenes were not something that I could share with anyone, so essentially I hid them away, from everyone. It made me feel sneaky, basically. And sneak I did, to movies or magazine stands, or whatever. Then the internet arrived, and suddenly none of us were alone anymore!

It amazed me when my wife figured out that I had this fetish and came to accept it, if not fully understand it. Actually, it was a blessing when she did, because she actually thought my "emotions" were inherently dangerous, even to her. From her viewpoint, I had "murderous" feelings, which seemed to be a supressed rage or something, she thought. It made no sense, but it was scary. When we finally were forced to bring it out into the open and talk about it, it was a relief to her. Now she knows that I escape into my "cave" with this from time to time, and she just goes and does something that is fun for her, get some pretzels and watch Downton Abbey or something...

As a teenager (when my death fetish eroticism first took intense hold of me) and as a young woman, I struggled a lot with guilt. But I no longer have guilty feelings at all, and in fact embrace this aspect of my sexuality with enthusiasm and delight. Being a part of our community reminds me every day what good folks we share our fetish feelings with...I derive so much pleasure from our sexy online play and interactions.

To say my dead/sexy life is a joy would be an understatement. I adore and admire you all, and I've never felt so complete, happy and fulfilled.

XOX Grace

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