What I most like about my fetish!

[Bluestone]

There are members here with all kinds of fetishes... asphyxia, shooting, stabbing, hanging, beheading... etc... etc.; however, within those general categories are many, many sub-categories and personal likes and dislikes. I've noticed this with the customs that I've done over the past 8 years as well as with discussions on message boards such as this, but I can't remember a thread where members not only stated the special elements of their particular sub-fetish, but also explained why it turns them on. Well, let's have that discussion now. I'll go first...

Of course, as a producer I film all kinds of fetishes and enjoy many, but my favourite are strangulations. The most important elements to me, in order, are:

1. A beautiful woman (one who I'd love to screw) as the victim, whether she's a bad girl or good girl!
2. This victim presented in a manner to excite, whether clothed in sexy garments, unclothed or partially clothed.
3. Eyes and mouth wide open, eyes fearful, mouth gasping for air, at the complete mercy of the killer.
4. A male killer so that I can identify with the scene and put myself in his place.
5. A mixture of facial, and partial as well as full body shots, letting me see her legs kicking, her breasts heaving, her tiny fists pounding against her attacker.
6. A long strangle, not a short Hollywood-styled one.
7. An eyes open death with mouth also at least partially open, but no tongue lolling out of the mouth.
8. A post mortem pan of the body from various angles, with breast fondling being a huge bonus to me.

So, that's my wish list when I am seeking a video to get off on. Conversely, if the victim doesn't appeal to my personal likes, in my case being overly tattooed, pierced, or simply not attractive to me, I don't really care to see her strangled. Beautiful women dressed in baggy overalls are a waste, the outfits really hiding as opposed to highlighting their erotic assets.

Why do I like this? Well, for me it most parallels a woman's sexual orgasm. She is gasping, writhing, her whole body shaking and the killer is in control... holding her captive, as if raping her. Her soft neck is squeezed... tighter and tighter... like a final, fatal embrace... and when she is dead, the conquest is complete. Her beautiful body is completely mine (er, I mean, her killer's) to do with as I (er, he) pleases. That's what I think really turns me on about fantasy strangulations.

What about you? What turns you on? Don't tell me what you want to see Bluestone film. That seems to always be assumed here. Oh, Bluestone posted, so he wants us to talk about Bluestone videos, and actresses, yadda yadda yadda. No, I don't!!! If you like beheadings, which I don't generally do, I want to know why you like them, and what elements turn your crank... not because I want to film them, but for the sake of general interest and sharing.

So, the floor is yours, people. What turns you on and why?

Blue

[mikedark]

I have so many subcategories. There's many killing styles I love, and there's many genres of story that I like. Focusing on just one is almost impossible. I'll try to narrow things down to just shootings though

For me, the most important elements are:

1. The bullet placement should be in the middle portion of the body: the boobs, belly, or feminine triangle.
2. Eyes open
3. Look of total surrender
4. Light dribble of blood over the lips
5. Mouth lightly open, as though there's some secret message she wants to say

The reasons I most love about shootings are that they're extremely symbolic. The bullet punctures the body. It penetrates the body. When combined with the shape of the bullet, the bullet is clearly a phallic symbol. The bullet is also extremely hot, and generates a short burst of heat in the victim, which is also symbolic of the sex act. This is especially true when the bullet in placed anywhere in the core area, which is where the vital organs needed to maintain, generate, and nurture life are located.

[Nightposter]

Let's see....
Damsels in Distress in Uniform:
1.The "uniform" should be well fitting and correctly worn.
1a.It should be a proper uniform, not a costume from the online sex store
1b. Correctly worn: not tied up under the boobs, no leather miniskirt, no fishnet stockings,or nylon tops
and garter belt showing at skirt hemline. They are professionals, not street hookers.

2. The subject should be "believable":
2a. age correct for what she is wearing: a 19 year old is not a military officer, or police sargent .
2b. prefer women from later 20's to late 40's who look the part.
2c. I prefer "girls next door". They have just enough "shape" and attractiveness, and not "overly
endowed" in any one area.

3. The "attitude"
3a. My favorite is the woman who is "empowered" by her uniform, who thinks her uniform will protect
her from harm.
3b. a woman who's whole attitude changes when in peril. Kim used to say " pillar of strength, reduced
to a crying pile of flesh"
3c. a woman who struggles against her situation almost to the end. I hate it when the bad guy grabs
them and they just give in and allow things to happen. She is vocal, even when gagged - but
not the continued " whining or mewing" that some do in videos.

4. The scene
4a. believability - it is not believable that someone would grab and hold a policewoman ( or anyone for
that matter) and strip them naked in the first three minutes of capture ( and their clothing
magically disappears, both from their bodies and the scene). It is also not believable that
someone who is struggling against capture, ends up in perfect rope bondage, with each turn of
rope aligned to the next, perfectly centered knots, etc. One strip of duct tape does not completely
silence a struggling damsel!
4b. I prefer the aggressor to take a hands on approach wit the victim. Fondling, clothes ripping
pinching, slapping, hair puling, wrestling and overpowering are all pluses.

5. The "finish"
5a. referring to 4a, strangulation is not a 30 second "squeeze" where the victim goes limp after 10
seconds. She struggles, getting weaker as she uses up what oxygen she has in her body.
5b. I prefer little or no blood endings, but like the effort some producers put into wound makeup.
Victims should look like they were just violently killed, not like they are posing for a fashion photo
shoot. Messed up hair, makeup, clothing is the rule.

One other "must have" applies to women in uniform. I have seen and have in my possession videos and photo shots involving uniforms. It seems that a lot of producers prefer to handle them "with kid gloves", as opposed to what happens to victims in "civilian clothes". I have seen sets where "model A" was beat down, and the producers wrecked the set with her, but in another beat down set featuring "model A" wearing a military uniform, she was bound, then quickly stripped naked ( with the disappearing clothing) and then they destroyed the victim (and room).

[Vanessa]

Looks like I get to be the first lady to post on this thread! WOO HOO!

It's no secret that I love beheadings. Now for the nitty-gritty details.

I am NOT a fan of concentual snuff fantasies. I have never meet anyone who'd willingly let someone else kill them. I know there are people out there who are wired like that... they're not right. It's NOT natural. If the victim is willing, there had better be a reason behind it (incurable/fatal illness, sacrifice for a loved one's well-being, drugged/mind-controlled). So to wrap up this segment, non-willing victims.

I am NOT into complete nudity (no secret here). At the minimal, I prefer the victim (male or female) to be wearing pantyhose (NOT stockings, though okay if worn with pantyhose). Sexy heels are always a welcome as well. I like my pumps and sandals. I am not a big fan of boots (especially thigh-high). I like to see as much of the nylon-clad flesh as possible. Girls/women dressed to go out on the town or ready for work are my favorite victims. It shows they had other plans for the day and NOT dying.

I prefer my girls to be unassuming. Meaning, they are not evil killers, or spies, or criminal master minds. They are mundane girls going about their business and either are targeted or just happen to be in the wrong place at the "wrong" time. The closest I like to get to a gun-toting gal is law enforcement (beat cop, detective, security agent). Male victims can be mundane or super. I primarily like female victims.

As for M/O, I like beheading/decapitation. Preferably slow with a knife or saw, but the quicker methods are exciting for me too. Now, you probably want to know why? I've thought about this long and hard. Removing the head separates the heart and the brain... COMPLETELY. With out the head, the body loses most of its identity, essentially making the body nothing more than meat (or a play thing). Also, the female form is so beautiful and taking away the head adds a surreal appeal. You look at the beautiful body and wonder who she was and what her life might have been before being cut short. As for the head... it can become a wall trophy to show off the identities that have been stolen or it could be tossed to animals, into an incinerator, or just the trash bin, removing the identity from memory.

Also, when the head is removed, I like a lot of body action. Unless sedated, the body is going to protest the removal of its control center, and fighting to stay alive after the head has been taken away. I'm not into bowl-release, but I don't mind bladder-release.

Finally, I like post-mortem body handling. Whether it is necrophilia, stuffing the body into some sort of containment, butchering it for food or easier disposal, or what ever. The faster the death, the more post-mortem activity I want.

I am also a fan of neck snaps, throat slitting, bullet to the brain, gutting, full-body impalement (like for spit-roasting), bisection, and (to a lesser extent) hanging. But I believe the thread is about absolute favorites? So I won't go into detail about these other M/Os.

Vanessa

[taurusjds]

Certainly for me there are some priorities that have to be met before I even pay attention to the production and then specific factors where I am driven to purchase or not purchase.
Generally I am saving a lot of money right now because fuller figured "overly well endowed" women (and I do mean the more mature type - not teens) are definetly not featured often in this venue. Secondly (where I do agree with Blue) is that clothing is most important -- silks, satin, stockings, heals, business attire -- more formally dressed rather than cheap casual clothing is a must for me. Seem to be stuck in a vintage era -- I think -- where women dressed like women.
Shootings, strangles, stabbings all good -- wounds preferably through clothing with some blood but not smearing or overdone.
Over a period of tens years or more I have become very discriminating and refined in taste for this fetish -- and that may be what I like most ---- the hunt for just the right production !!

[SaucySailor]

1. If she's shot or stabbed in the belly or chest or throat there must be a trickle of blood (or it will be too irrealistic)
2. Slit throat or shot/stabbed in the chest or strangled with a tape or rope (not hanged)
3. No smile. It's ridiculous when a victim smiles.
4. Eyes and mouth open or slightly open
5. If anyone remembers last thing that anyone does is micturition. OK, I agree, it sounds turning off. But wet girl's pants or knickers sounds better!

[SaucySailor]

And some more:
Tense agony and easy or limp dead pose, attractive neck curve, dressed on or nude - not half-stripped. When she at last dies all her muscles are harshly getting soft. A few seconds ago she sqirmed and writhed and then she limps from previous very tense pose.

[DaleCar]

What I like most about this fetish is the girls that also enjoy it.

[Reallyhaveto]

I like "realistic" shootings. Don't get me wrong, I'd hate to see a live snuff, and I don't like when the video looks like it could be live either. Let's rather say I like it realistic, but in a Hollywood style (now that is controversial).
I like languorous but quick deaths. If it takes forever for an actress to die, I lose interest. Actually, I'm more interested in her last breaths than in an overly long moaning agony. Petra is an actress who I often enjoy, but I admit I always skip to the part where she is on the verge (no pun intended) of death, as this is where she has the more variety in her moans, and I can listen to them getting weaker, and see her face and body relax, as for a woman who just attained orgasm.
I don't mind for the opponent to be a man or woman. I'm rather disturbed to see men with a dirty look about them, like fat, old, thin haired guys with droopy faces and lazy voices, going about saying "oh yeah" all the time. Where is the sexyness in that? I always wondered why simulated snuffs could almost always afford a gorgeous woman, but rarely a good looking and fit male protagonist.
I like women with a pulpous anatomy, like Petra and the like. I have a clear preference for natural breasts though, as they offer a more captivating movement than stiff huge breasts. I recently discovered Tiffany Lee and I'm quite fond of the movement of her legs and breasts!
I don't have a preference for clothing. Even a woman in a jumpsuit can be sexy :) A good example would be the character Crystal in Death train.
I like pleasant voices. Also, women who shriek all the time are a bit annoying to my taste.
I like to see stabbing with knives or swords gun or bow shooting. The belly is my choice area for a good stab or shot, as it looks so soft and welcoming. It also allows a nice view on her breasts as she bends and press her arm around the wound. Curiously, unlike many people, I don't have any facination for bellybuttons...
Also, I'm not fond of seeing blood all over her. A fine thrickle through her fingers or over her arm is nice, though, but I don't like gore nor cheap VFX, which usually makes me stop watching a clip (and it happens a lot of times).
I also love when a bit of flesh wriggles due to impact or a few spasms.
As many others, I like open eyes and mouth. I like sighs and moans, but I'm not overly fond of coughing to much.
I'd say a good clip is a clip that looks like a short but intense sexual intercourse.
To conclude, I like when female villains are killed. Somehow, even when I fantasize by myself, I don't like the idea of hurting an innocent woman. She always has to "deserve" it. If I find a video where the scenario is open to interpretation, I always tend to imagine she is a bad one. Maybe the reason is the same as why I got into this fetish in the first place: I was fond of action movies as a teen, and I still remember clearly the first time I saw a French copy of Double Impact, when Cory Everson takes a knife in her belly, and rewinding the cassette countless times to see her struggle fiercely, finally losing strength, take a knife stab right under a wriggling breast, bend, scream, open her eyes wide in astonishment, sway backwards with a light moan, and lay slowly on the ground, clutching to Van Damme's arms, breathing out a few final sigh, leaving me unknowing if she was really dead, feeling sorry for her and fantasizing I would have taken her gently before she really died if I could have been in Van Damme's fictional shoes

[xj900uk]

Has to be realistic & believable for me. Like Nyghtfall and others, I prefer the more mainstream/cinematic approach to depicting female death on screen. I know it's only fantasy, but I've seen such unbelievably bad 'home produced' DS-type movies which are just so laughably awful they are more a turn-off than anything else. Also I have no interest at all in the necro-sex fetish, which is often closely linked or overlaps the 'actual demise' fetish (but that's just me, and I accept there are a lot of fans out there who love it)

[Grace X]

For me, the erotic murder is a metaphor for sexual pleasure, so I enjoy eroticism of all kinds (both implied and explicit) in my fantasies.

My favorite is to be strangled, though over the years I have come to enjoy the rush of fantasy death from almost any method. Shooting, bagging, stabbing...on and on.

I am always an empowered woman in my fantasies. Almost always a bad girl (hitwoman, femme fatale, etc) and my deaths carry the implication that I'm getting what is coming to me. But I am always brave and fierce...never a crying or begging victim. My killer needs to either surprise or overpower me.

And I like to have fun. My persona as a fantasy killer woman who ends up dead is gleefully bad. My partners in filmmaking, roleplay and stories invariably end up dear friends in the community.

Why do I like these elements in my fantasies? Well, for me they are a complex part of my sexual psychology...a mix of empowerment and surrender which facilitates a powerful sexual response for me. Blue's question of "why this turns you on" to the members is an important one, as I think when we understand why the aspects of our death fantasies work as triggers to our libido, we can enjoy them more deeply. As with all good sex, awareness leads to fulfillment.

[G-Man]

Sorry, I missed this thread when it came out.
So I guess I will chime in now.
1. I like the woman to be full figured I.E. Anna Nicole Smith, Anita Ekberg (maybe that's why I like a lot of Blue's releases )
and usually dressed in a solid color item... I.E. one piece bathing suite, bra & girdle, body suits, body stocking, pantyhose,
tight fitting (shinny even better) pants or just about anything that shows off her curves... also nude O.K.
2. Ideally I like the victim to be a evil character and shot by a handgun.
3. Points of impact... below the neck and above her love box also in the back.
BUT... no nipple or bellybutton hits.
4. I like to see the actual shooting last some seconds and then the vic take a while to die.
(Ideal examples... GI Executioner, Hit Lady, Trade Off, Mind Twister, I The Jury, Satan's Blade and
Possessed by the Night)